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From glen to glen and down the mountainside...Marg Yeah I'm probably going to rant in this entry. Juj you might not wanna read it cause I don't wanna get into a big argument with you. So let's see. Danny cheated on Jamie. More than once. They went out for six weeks. It was the fifth time they've gone out. I have gone out with Danny 3 times. Many have gone out wiht him more than 10. A good number of girls have gone out with him. I wouldn't be surprised if it were 50. The majority don't last more than a week or so. Sometimes they last a day. Now back to the current situation. Jamie dumped Danny for cheating on her, as any girl would do. And suddenly, it's Danny we are feeling sorry for. Why? Because he "loves her so much" and he cried for her. So obviously, if he sheds a few tears, everything he did is considered ok. Now Juj I know that's not what you're saying. But it sounds like it. It really does. I know that you say he says that he's changed and whatnot. But let me tell you thats not the first time he's said that. He also has a messed up theory that because he's a screwup he must have more than one or two chances at everything, including relationships. I'm serious this is what he said: *Screenname censored for person's protection*: we all make mistakes... i jus happen to make more than the avarage person... thats why i need my chances *danny*: illl try a zillion times to do something that i think is what is right *Danny*: but i dont need a zillion *Danny*: i need 6 hmm six, huh? Funny how you came up with that number. I know you (juj) and kathy and danny think he's suddenly a changed man, but I beg to differ. What has he done to prove that he's changed? A few tears aren't going to cut it. I don't doubt his affection for Jamie. I doubt his ability to keep it in his pants. You have forgotten Juj, that in the begginning of 8th grade Danny came to me. He admitted that he had lied during the summer. He admitted that he had done wrong. He said he was a changed man and that he couldn't screw it up again. The same sort of things he's saying right now. Obviously, he didn't change then, so who's to say he'll change now? Danny is a big fan of getting second chances. Why, I remember at the end of the 7th grade dance... Danny: Just give me a chance. Marg: I already gave you a chance! Danny: Ever heard of second chances? The summer before 8th grade... Danny: C'mon just gimme another chance! 8th grade... Danny: Why won't you give me a chance? To Jamie a total number of 5 times... Danny: Gimme a chance. Now... Danny: I need more chances. Well, I don't know if anyone else is noticing a pattern here. Hmm... so I sent Jamie the conversation with Danny that I had where I was being "a bitch". Her response: Me: do u think i was being bitchy? Jamie:no Jamie:you sound like me Jamie: the way that you put it is better than how i've put it and i've been asking forever That's right, folks. Straight from the girl who got cheated on's mouth. See, right now, Danny thinks he's in love with Jamie. He wants to marry her. And have babies with her. Seriously. Am I being a bitch or does this kid need a reality check? Let me remind you, we are in the 9th grade. And Danny doesn't exactly have the reputation of being very committed. Danny also thinks that he is suddenly all better now. From six weeks of therapy. Now I am no shrink (yet) but I do seem to believe that it takes a lot more than just 6 weeks. Especially when you are a liar, a cheater, and a stealer. Oh yeah, and smoke pot all the time with your dad. (All of which he has admitted to) Nora's response to my conversation with Danny: yeah...he's definitely...I dunno...he needs to realize a few things. He needs to be able to mature and make better decisions. Like find a totally new relationship and not screw up at all, to show everyone that he's changed, when he actually does. Cuz I suppose he might change some time, but he hasn't yet and it's gonna take a while. Now let me give you a little sense of Danny. The summer before 8th grade I was going out with him. Well, after about 3 weeks, I started liking my good friend Dave. And Dave started liking me. Well, not wanting to make a rash decision, I decide to give it some thought before I dump Danny. So we ( danny, dave, jamie, and I) head off to the pool. After maybe 15 minutes or so, Danny sees some girls he knows. He immediately goes over to them. No goodbye, no "lemme go talk to my friends" no nothing. And there I was. In the pool with David, watching my boyfriend be all over girls I didn't know. You can obviously tell who I chose. Well I get home and guess what? There's an email from Danny saying, and I quote, "Wanna just be friends?" Well, call me stupid, but I took that as him breaking up with me. So I think, Great! Now I don't have to break up with him! So Dave and I go out and all is well...for about 10 minutes. Danny gets on and guess what? Appppparently, it was "just a question". Hmm. Imagine that. So now he shouts and yells at me. He was "hurt" you know. Let me remind you, that this was just the begginning of his "hurt" that wonderful summer. But I don't feel like telling you the rest. I just wanted you to get a sense. It's funny how in response to my "well I've thought I loved a lot of guys but then I realized I didn't" he responded that I "didn't have what he and Jamie had" Yes, yes, how silly of me. I certainly could not have more than your six week relationship in which you cheated on your girlfriend more than once. You and Jamie obviously have something special. And obviously, I am a bitch. |